- Old photographs of you, relatives, friends, events, places, anything meaningful to you. If you have boxes full, select the best and most appropriate ones for each category. Use these as memory joggers while writing, and include a relevant one or few in your story.
- Scrapbooks may include programs from plays you attended or acted in, dance cards, invitations, announcements, newspaper clippings, and all sorts of other trivia that ties in with stories.
- Diaries or journals. If you are an avid journal keeper, you’ll find a treasure trove of memories and insights. One key difference between lifestories and journals is that typical journal entries record events and reactions, but lack details. Lifestories take those events and reactions and emphasize their significance by giving form and shape to them to add meaning for readers.
- Old calendars remind you of forgotten events, and they are golden resources for documenting dates.
- Old music and songs from your youth or other special times in your life can bring long-forgotten memories flooding back. If you don’t have recordings of your own, search the Internet. In addition to YouTube, new streaming services are constantly appearing that allow you to select and listen to music on your computer, tablet or phone.
- Old letters written to or by you. Perhaps relatives have saved letters you wrote to them or have other material of interest they would be willing to return or loan you. Ask them, and get them involved with your project.
- Family members and friends can remind you of stories you’ve forgotten, or recall details you don’t remember. Tell them about your project, and ask about their memories of stories and events. It’s enlightening and fascinating to explore how differently people remember things. You may even want to incorporate some of these differences into your story, attributing the different perspective to the other person. Just remember who owns the story—you! Not long ago my sister read one of my stories and began enlightening me about what really happened. “I guess you need to write your own story,” I told her. “You may be right, but that’s not the way I remember it, and this is my story.” One day she just may.
- Internet websites. Search for sites on memoirs, genealogy, historical events, locations, etc. A search for “Lifestory writing tips” will yield thousands of hits with useful information. If you don’t have Internet access at home, go to the library. The librarians are happy to show you the basics of how to use it, and many libraries offer free classes on doing Internet research.
Story Starter Resource List
Ideas for stories are everywhere, but sometimes you need help to get them flowing. The list below lists resources you can use to help remember stories and refresh your memory on details. Besides serving as memory joggers, several can be used to illustrate and enhance your stories as you write them.
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Memory joggers? How about candles, baby powder, a cigar, neatsfoot oil, snow, horseradish, pine trees, things you can SMELL. I was just exchanging emails with someone for whom the smell of freshly caught fish--and, yes, the smell of cleaning them--was very evocative. For both of us, these smells were more than pleasant: they brought back wonderful memories of childhood vacations up north. Even now I will fish a little just to get the smell on my hands. This is handy--small fish do the trick as well as lunkers!
To bring back memories, I actually get the candle or the powder or the cigar and hold it up to my nose, then let it do its magic.
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